I want kids
Eventually but attached with it are so many fears. And I don’t know why I worry about this when I am 21. I know I would make a great dad but I don’t like talking about it with people. Because my dad wasn’t much of a dad, dosen’t mean you should give me advise on how to raise them or what I should do. I have had from my childhood till now tp think about it, I got this.
But I’d be scared to have a kid and have to fight with custody if something happened with the wife. I think that is one of my reasons why I am so picky about who I date. I’m not looking for a wife at 21, lol. but why would I want to date someone I couldn’t see myself being with in the long run? For fun? I find it pointless. Because I’m like this, will cause me to be single for some time but it’s like a love/hate kinda thing.
Just thinking out loud.
What are your views about this? Comment.
